I'm just here to keep this thread alive. It astonishes me that this was suggested 5,5 years (!?) ago and nothing has changed.
I like other before me have, would like to suggest a tab or widget where these request are gathered so you have them in one overvieuw. Then the manual part that need to be done is bearable. Requesting layments is just confusing and tedious. Shared payments aren't connected properly, and when payed you get a 'request expired' notification.
Dear Bunq, it is time this problem is being adressed :)